I’ve been dating a recently divorced guy, for less than half a year and he’s now depressed and pulling away. I really want to be with him, and also he has alot of life situations that are pulling him in different directions away from me. Should I be his friend or move on? || Read more
I’ve always been shy & overweight. I took your advice, stuck to a New
Years resolution to lose weight, and I lost 50 pounds! But I need some
serious help, because 1) I don’t feel comfortable in my new body, I’m not
toned & I have a lot more weight to lose 2) I can’t flirt or strike up a
conversation with a man to save my life and 3) I surrounded myself with shy women who were just like me and now that I’m trying to go to mixers & meet people, none of my friends want to go with me, || Read more
The other day I got an tweet from a site called College Candy and it said something like “If You Can’t Get A Date You Are Probably Ugly.” This is in regards to a post I wrote for How About We. Now, I don’t recall using the “u” word in any posts so it was shocking. I started to read the article and I had to stop, it was a little hostile and scared me, to be honest. But I wanted to address it all in this post. || Read more
I have been very lucky that so many of you have taken kindly towards my blog. It has not gone unnoticed and I greatly appreciate it. When I started this blog my only intention was to give women a strategy to help them select amazing husbands and have an awesome life, and that is still my main priority. Life is much richer when you have the love and support of a great partner.
But I’m so pleased that Yahoo Shine, Glamour magazine, College Candy and others posted my blog, even if they don’t agree with my opinion. It’s fine, everyone doesn’t have to agree with me. The team at How About We has been an amazing with the editing and help towards my blog. Thanks to all of you East Coasters.
It has all been awesome and I’m so humbled.
Being the planner that I am, I had to take a moment and think about a “Wish List” moving forward. I would like to be published in Glamour, Essence, Cosmopolitan, Elle, Ebony, Heart & Soul, and O magazine. I would love interviews on blogs such as Huffington Post, Clutch online magazine, and so many more.
Who doesn’t like day time talk shows? I am the biggest fan of shows like the Wendy Williams Show, Tyra Banks Show, The View and the new Ricki Lake show.
We are in the age of Video posts, I’d like to incorporate those into my posts. I have yet to do any actual PR but that is a goal for 2013. I also would like to have a book published based on my dating strategy as well as several case studies of ladies that I have helped get to the alter.
Unfortunately I can’t do it alone. None of it. If you have any connections please help. Also make sure to spread the word of the blog. I know that my views are so old fashioned that they seem almost controversial but to that I say use me as a last resort; after you have exhausted everything you know.
With Love XOXO
How do you get a guy to stay knowing that you both have feelings for each other but you have lost communication for a week. I really like this guy and I tried my best to see him but it didn’t work out. I want to be with him still, can you help. || Read more
Thank you for taking the time to personally coach me! As a result of our chats, the dating scene has been going very well. After the first session, I went on 3 dates and was asked out for a second date while on the first by all three guys and that has never happened to me before! Since then, I’ve had a lot of prospects and let go of many too. || Read more
I met my ex-husband when I was 22 and was married till I was 43. After that I dated a retired athlete “off and on” for 2 years. He was difficult but I also had a great time.
The online thing sucks!! And I have a so little time running my own business. I want to meet successful professional men, any ideas? || Read more