Are you Married? Is it Black and White?
2012
A friend of mine is going to lunch with a young lady he met at an ice cream shop. My friend is an awesome guy, really sweet, great career, smart, responsible and married.
He has been separated for about a year and lazy with the divorce due to a career change. The girl asked him on the phone is he is married.
It’s a simple enough question but I wonder if it’s entirely fair. In the state of Maryland you couple can’t divorce legally until they have been separated for a year. Two separate households, “separate.” So in that situation is the guy divorced? No.
In California, the more money you have, the longer the divorce. I’ve seen some divorces take two plus years. Are you not supposed to date during that time?
I don’t have a straight answer but at a certain age, if someone has not been married, then that should be the problem. Not if they are going through divorce, at least that’s my opinion.
What do you think?
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